After more than a decade in clinical psychology and coaching Christian leaders,
 I Noticed SomethingÂ
Something is broken in the way we talk about men, mental health, and leadership. We tell men to lead with strength, but never teach them how to process fear, failure, or fatigue. We praise results, but ignore the quiet resentment that builds under the surface. We reward men for being composed, decisive, and dependable, even while they silently spiral with anxiety, shame, and self-doubt. And inside the minds of many high-achieving Christian men, a war is raging. They’re doing everything they’re “supposed” to do: showing up for work, leading their families, serving at church, but still feel like they’re falling short of the man they were meant to be. They’re not lazy. They’re not unmotivated. They’re not weak. They’re carrying a load that was never meant to be carried alone.
And no one’s talking about it.Â
That’s why I created Victorious with Dr. Jesse Scott. Because professional men don’t need another productivity hack, shallow pep talk, or sermon about how they should “man up.” They need direction. They need confidence. They need identity. They need a proven process to eliminate leadership anxiety, so they can lead at the highest levels without compromising their values, burning out their marriages, or losing themselves in the process. That’s what I help them do.
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Why? Because deep down, you already know the truth:
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Trying harder isn’t fixing the problem.
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The anxiety. The overthinking. You’ve done everything the world told you to do: grind, succeed, provide, but something is still missing. You’ve been operating like your identity depends on your output. And while it’s made you productive, it hasn’t brought you peace. You’re not broken. You’re just leading from a place that was never meant to be your foundation.
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But it doesn’t have to stay this way.
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There is a different way to lead. One that’s rooted in purpose, not performance. One that renews your strength, sharpens your focus, and brings stability into your relationships. That’s what I’m here to show you. If you’re ready to stop running on empty and start building a legacy you’re proud of, this is where it starts. Schedule a call. It might just be the decision that changes everything.
And For Those Of You Who Are Asking "What Does This Guy know About Training Leaders?"
Here’s Why I’m So Passionate About This Work
- I’ve spent the last 10 years in the trenches of human behavior, first as a licensed psychologist, now as a coach to high-performing men who refuse to let anxiety write their story.
- I have a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology from the University of Nevada, Las Vegas, and I’ve spent years coaching leaders, athletes, and business owners, men who look successful on the outside but feel stuck, exhausted, and unsure of who they’re becoming.
- In my therapy practice, I saw what anxiety, shame, depression, trauma, and stress do to a man’s mind, relationships, and identity. In the coaching space, I saw what happens when that same man learns to lead himself and others in the way God intended.
- I created Victorious with Dr. Jesse Scott to help professional Christian men eliminate leadership anxiety and reclaim the peace, confidence, and conviction they were designed to walk in…because leadership shouldn’t come at the cost of your values. And, success doesn’t mean anything if you lose yourself building it.
